Supporting a loved one through a mental health crisis can be emotionally taxing. However, your compassion and understanding can make a significant difference in their journey toward healing. Below are some key ways to provide meaningful support for loved ones during difficult times.
Listen
One of the most powerful things you can do for someone in crisis is listen. Your loved one may be overwhelmed by emotions, and having a nonjudgmental listener can be incredibly comforting. Avoid interrupting or offering immediate solutions. Sometimes, they just need to express their thoughts and feelings without fear of being dismissed.
Validate Emotions
It’s important to acknowledge their emotions rather than minimizing them. Phrases like “I see that this is really hard for you” or “It’s okay to feel this way” can be incredibly affirming. Avoid telling them to “cheer up” or “look on the bright side,” as this can make them feel unheard and misunderstood. Let them know that their feelings are valid and that they are not alone.
Show Interest
Expressing genuine interest in their experiences shows them support. Ask open-ended questions like “How are you feeling today?” or “Is there anything specific on your mind?” Be patient and give them space to share at their own pace. Sometimes, just knowing that someone cares enough to ask can be a source of comfort.
Offer Real Support
While emotional support is vital, practical assistance can also make a big difference. Offer to call a therapist on their behalf, dial 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) if they need immediate help, or take care of small tasks that might feel overwhelming to them, such as running errands. Engage in stress-relief exercises together, like meditation, deep breathing, or light physical activity, also provides relief and a sense of connection.
Stay Calm
Your loved one may already be dealing with intense emotions, and an overreaction from you can add to their distress. It’s crucial to remain calm, even if you feel scared or frustrated. If you panic or become overly emotional, they may feel guilty or burdened by your reaction, making it harder for them to open up. Take a deep breath, center yourself, and focus on being a steady source of support.
Respect Boundaries
While your instinct may be to push your loved one to seek help, it’s essential to respect their boundaries. If they aren’t ready to talk or take action, let them know you’re there when they are. Forcing them to take steps they aren’t prepared for creates more stress. Instead, gently encourage them by reminding them that help is available when they’re ready.
Call a Professional
Supporting a loved one through a mental health crisis requires patience, empathy, and understanding. Ultimately, professional help is often necessary in a mental health crisis. Encourage your loved one to schedule an appointment with a therapist or psychiatrist. If they need immediate assistance, help them contact a professional resource, like the care therapy team at Lotus Psychology Group, to ensure they receive the proper care. You can contact Lotus Psychology Group by calling (248) 957-8973, emailing our team at info@lotuspsychgroup.com, or completing our online form.