{"id":1169,"date":"2021-06-01T21:26:47","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T21:26:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lotuspsychgroup.com\/professionals-caring-for-new-moms\/"},"modified":"2022-07-27T10:36:15","modified_gmt":"2022-07-27T10:36:15","slug":"professionals-caring-for-new-moms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lotuspsychgroup.com\/stagingnew\/professionals-caring-for-new-moms\/","title":{"rendered":"Professionals caring for new moms"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1169\" class=\"elementor elementor-1169\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c5dc8a6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c5dc8a6\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f649cd9\" data-id=\"f649cd9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-832ab56 elementor-align-left elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"832ab56\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-e7fd252 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lotuspsychgroup.com\/stagingnew\/author\/ryan\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tRyan\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-dcaeb96 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lotuspsychgroup.com\/stagingnew\/2021\/06\/01\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-calendar\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tJune 1, 2021\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e88aed elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1e88aed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Professionals caring for new moms\n<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2bfc5f6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2bfc5f6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tI have been noticing an unpleasant trend as I make my way through the networking game trying to find professionals with appropriate experience (or an interest in) working with the perinatal population. We are all guilty of it at times but need to be aware of our words and actions.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-649284a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"649284a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t It breaks down to this: What are the &#8220;RIGHT&#8221; ways of birthing and raising infants?\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c2d4d11 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c2d4d11\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 1. A physician, midwife or birth doula\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3611abd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3611abd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 2. Natural birth or medicated birth\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b4edab elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b4edab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 3. Breastfeeding or bottle feeding\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-36f935e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"36f935e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 4. Co-sleep or separate sleep\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-49aef2c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"49aef2c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 5. Baby wearing or not\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ac508e7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ac508e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 6. Cry it out sleep training or not\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0e2fd53 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0e2fd53\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t 6. psychotropics during pregnancy and breastfeeding or not\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ea93749 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ea93749\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t And the list goes on and on and on&#8230;.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c24a6a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7c24a6a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t Some experts focus on natural methods, while other experts stress the importance of delivering the child to term, and yet others focus on the mother or family system&#8217;s health. All experts recommending different choices so just think how hard it is for someone who is not an expert to decide which the &#8220;RIGHT&#8221; choice. What we as professionals forget is that clients\/patients are experts in themselves, they will choose what they think is best based on the information given to them.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-732435c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"732435c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t It should not be our job to shame parents into one direction or another. We need to remember that most parents are trying their best. What works for one family might not work for others or what worked the first time around might not work with the second or third child. It is our job to inform, understand, and respect those choices that parents make.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6961778 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6961778\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t Sometimes without thinking professionals will place judgment on parents because they as the expert believe one way is better than the other. What we forget is that perhaps that mom tried natural birth but had complications at home and had to go to the hospital. Perhaps that mom desperately wanted to breastfeed but even with intervention from a lactation consultant the baby wouldn&#8217;t latch. Maybe a co-sleeping situation or sleep-training method allows the parents the much needed rest in order to provide that infant with the care needed for the day. Perhaps another mom has severe anxiety and rather than doubly exposing her baby to the medication and the stress (Cortisol) hormone she is choosing to use the medication to reduce the stress hormones on the baby.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f04a376 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f04a376\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t These choices are not always clear cut dichotomies. Therefore rather than judging and shaming these families, let&#8217;s listen to their stories, provide them with supportive words, and be respectful of how hard it is to be a parent.\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c5eb99b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c5eb99b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tMany people have a hectic lifestyle, thus neglecting to make time for therapeutic activities like relaxation and mindfulness. Relaxation can be different for every person, ranging from reconnecting with nature to taking a bubble bath or walking the dog. Mindfulness, on the other hand, requires commitment and effort. However, once you get into it, you will become more aware of the present, rather than focusing on the past or the future.\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-25a6af54 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"25a6af54\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-174d1e28\" data-id=\"174d1e28\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been noticing an unpleasant trend as I 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